Preparing your Child with Autism for School
~ This entry was posted on August 15, 2011
For many families the end of summer can be filled with worries of how their child will deal with returning to school, particularly for children with autism and other special needs. After a few months of a new summer routine, or a lack of a consistent routine, and for many the lack of demands (e.g., getting up early in the morning, dressing before a certain time, doing homework) this change can be dreaded.
Consider the changes the new school year will bring and try to prepare in advance for these changes by forewarning and practicing as much as possible. These new anticipated changes should be coupled with what we know of many children with autism and other developmental delays such as their tendency toward structure, routines, pictures and often music; Also what we know of children with autism regarding the presence of organizational difficulties, distractibility, and difficulties with generalizing. Recommendations for preparing for the upcoming changes the school year may bring may include the use of routines, visual supports including picture or written schedules and new rules, as well as stories about what can be expected including more specifically:
- Bed time and awaking—take the 1 or 2 weeks before school starts to gradually require your child to get to bed earlier and up earlier in the morning. You may try putting your child to bed at the time that will be required once school starts, or slowly move back bedtime a bit each night toward this ultimate school-time bedtime. A new bedtime or awake time may need to be discussed directly with your child, and written rules and new routines may be drawn up and posted (e.g., 7:20 prepare for next day, 7:30 brush teeth and put on pajamas, 7:45 story time, 8:00 lights off).
- Morning and nighttime routines—bedtime may now include setting school clothes out for the morning or packing a backpack. If your child is bothered by tags and other nuances within certain clothes make sure to make necessary adjustments now to eliminate distractions while they are expected to attend in class. As mentioned with regard to bed time and awaking, visual supports may be used.
- Meals and naps—try to align lunch time with the time the school will have lunch and determining what foods your child can bring to school and actually eat there. If naps have occurred during the upcoming school time hours you can also attempt to move naptime up or back and limit it to the 45 or 60 minutes they will be limited to at school.
- Homework—homework may now return or become a new daily routine required of your child every afternoon. While not necessary to provide your child with practice homework in advance, you may begin to limit access to preferred activities or items to use these as rewards for when homework is present. You might begin to make television or computer time only available after dinner, and thus when school starts, also after homework. And while you may not present them with worksheets now you may set aside some time in the afternoon to sit down and read or do some puzzles or other table top tasks that require sustained attention as homework will. Practice these tasks during time when homework would generally be required and begin to set up reward systems in which reinforcing items and activities follow these tasks.
- New school and/or new classroom—for those children where change is difficult, bringing them to the new school or new classroom, even showing them in advance pictures or simply talking to them about what they may expect can be comforting and a big relief. Many teachers are on campus preparing for the new school year a few days in advance and are often very understanding of specialized needs your child and family may have related to these changes. Take pictures of your child’s new school, new classroom, new teacher, etc. to use to review and discuss the upcoming changes and provide them with some information on what they can expect to decrease any anxiety. You may even get a few names of new students who will be in your child’s class to set up a few play dates in advance of the new school year so when school starts your child has a few familiar faces to greet.
- Associate school with fun new things– having a new backpack, lunch box, new pair of shoes or other items that are reserved for school may make getting up and going off to school that first day or week that much more exciting. A new school year is a new beginning and starting off with some new items to bring along that are rewarding and desired for your child may associate a new school year with desired activities.




